The Journey Of Grace?

It's day 306 of documenting 2025.

59 days to 2026!

Happy New Week! 

It's an adjustment week for me, as I'll officially be by myself for the first time in my life....very soon.

For the record, I won't be alone.

I've got Jesus with me 😊

Alright, alright

Today won't be the usual gist, because it was another random day in my aunt's house.

The last day actually...but nothing eventful took place.

Today was just a day to be alive and grateful 🥲

In that light, I'll just share today's highlights....as well as a chat I'll have with ChatGPT.

It would actually be based on what I'm thinking about, so we're going behind the scenes on this one.

Keep reading to find out! 

365 Days With Self-discipline

📌 On Ignorance

"There is nothing more frightful than ignorance in action."

Quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Ignorance is a manifestation of laziness. 

Instead of actively choosing to expand your knowledge, you instead choose to willfully bypass the opportunity to educate yourself. 

A side effect of ignorance is the fostering of negligence and laxity, two traits that are the opposite of what a successful person should embrace in their life.

Disregarding important information and choosing to not know when you do have access to education is like willfully asking for trouble.

Being financially illiterate, for example, can lead to economic problems.

Ignoring the needs of your partner; instead of learning about what they need from you....can destroy your relationship. 

Ignorance of the law can lead to

prison. 

Ignoring new technologies and failing to learn about relevant modern inventions makes you less relevant in your professional life.

Choose to be prepared rather than ignorant. Know too much instead of too little. 

Practice your self-discipline by constantly expanding your knowledge — and don’t discontinue your self-education when the truth is uncomfortable or leads to difficult questions.

My take on this one?

AKL is the code.

Always keep learning ✨

Alright, on to the chat....

Me: As someone who has never stayed away from home before, is it normal for me to not feel anxious about living by myself?

ChatGPT: Yes, it’s completely normal. Some people naturally feel calm or excited about independence instead of anxious, especially if they’re confident and mentally prepared. 

Feeling this way doesn’t mean you’re not aware of the change; it just shows you’re ready to embrace it.

Me: I think so

And it's going to be my first time living in a hostel as well....with other people.

The feeling of having roommates is still something I haven't explored yet 😐

ChatGPT: That’s completely natural to feel unsure about. 

Living with roommates is a new dynamic; you’ll be navigating shared space, routines, and personalities for the first time.  

It can be exciting and challenging at the same time. Keep an open mind, set small boundaries, and communicate clearly, and it’ll likely be a smoother experience than you expect.  

Do you want to talk about how to prepare for that transition?

Me: I don't know exactly what it entails

ChatGPT: That’s okay; it’s normal to feel unsure. Living with roommates usually means:  

- Shared space: Bedrooms, bathrooms, or common areas may be shared. You’ll need to coordinate usage and keep things tidy.  

- Schedules and routines: Everyone has different sleeping, studying, and social habits. It requires patience and compromise.  

- Communication: Small things like noise, visitors, or chores need to be discussed openly.

  

- Respecting boundaries: Learning to give each other privacy and space is key.  

It can be challenging at first, but it’s also a chance to build friendships and learn independence.  

Do you want me to give a few tips to make it easier?

Me: Yeah...I'd like that

ChatGPT: Here are some simple tips to make living with roommates smoother:  

1. Communicate Early: Talk about routines, study times, noise, and personal boundaries from the start.

  

2. Be Respectful: Keep your space clean, control noise, and respect shared areas.  

3. Set Boundaries: It’s okay to have personal time. Let your roommates know your limits kindly.  

4. Stay Flexible: Compromise is part of living together. Everyone has different habits.  

5. Build Relationships: Small gestures like greeting them or sharing snacks can go a long way. 

 

6. Own Your Space: Make your corner comfortable; having a little personal nook helps you feel at home.  

If you want, I can also give a mini “mental prep guide” for the first week to make the transition even smoother. 

Do you want me to do that?

Me: Nah....these tips are okay. 

I think I'll try my best to feel at home, even though I won't be with family anymore.

What does it even feel like to be homesick? 🤔

ChatGPT: Homesickness is that ache you feel when you miss the familiarity, comfort, and presence of home and loved ones.  

It can show up as:  

- A feeling of loneliness or emptiness  

- Missing your family, your room, or familiar routines  

- Worry or anxiety about being on your own  

- Sometimes even physical feelings, like a tight chest or low energy  

It’s very normal, especially at the start of living away for the first time. 

The key is knowing it usually eases as you settle in, build routines, and form new connections.  

If you want, I can share a few ways to handle homesickness so it doesn’t overwhelm you.

Me: Just one important way would work best 😌

ChatGPT: The most important way is to create a sense of home where you are.  

Bring in small things that remind you of comfort; photos, a blanket, or a little routine that grounds you. Having these familiar touches can make the new space feel safe and warm, even when you’re far from family.  

It’s simple, but it works wonders.

Me: Thanks, I'll keep that in mind.

Besides....I don't think I will feel so homesick, because I won't be alone.

Jesus will be with me

ChatGPT: Exactly 😌 

That’s such a strong anchor. Knowing you’re never truly alone; that Jesus is with you...changes everything.  

Even if moments feel new or a little overwhelming, you have a constant presence to lean on, which brings peace, courage, and reassurance.  

You’re stepping into this new chapter with a solid foundation. 🌿  

Do you want to talk about how to carry that sense of peace into your daily hostel life?

Me: I think I already know how to do that 😌

I think that would be all for now.

How about a poetic summary of our chat so far?

ChatGPT: Of course, here’s a gentle wrap-up for you:  

A new chapter calls, the unknown ahead,  

No fear, no anxiety, just calm instead.  

Though rooms will be shared and spaces new,  

Home’s not just walls; it’s what’s inside you.  

With small comforts close, familiar and true,  

And a quiet strength that walks with you.  

Jesus by your side, a light in the night,  

Guiding your steps, making all things right.  

So rise with hope, breathe peace, be free

Your journey begins, and you hold the key.  

How’s that?

Sounds perfect 🤗

AI just gives the best perspectives when it comes to summary poems.

Well, you now know what I was thinking about....and that would be all for today's post. Thanks for reading 🎀

I'm actually thinking of reducing the number of times that I drop the link to the main site here 🤔

Maybe just on the weekends would do. In the meantime....

See you in the next post 💜