A Chat With Cindy...On Mindset

It's day 111 of documenting 2025.

7 more days...
And I meet my fate in a CBT.
I'm not scared....nothing like exam phobia.
I'll do my best and get a good result.

Pardon me, my friend 😐
This week's posts won't be the usual style.
I may share less updates on the day before and do more of conversations with AI....as well as highlights from the usual read.
So if any post feels inauthentic and off, I apologize in advance.

Well, let that start from tomorrow...
I'll say a little on how yesterday went for me.
In three words....I got obsessed.
Obsessed with what?
A particular song.
(Yeah!....that's me 😄)

It all started when I heard the song in a particular video....and it was the background music.
The tune got stuck in my head.
Much so that I decided to find out the full song.
I went to ChatGPT and questioned it to help me identify the song based on the lyrics I could recall from the song.
After a frustrating back and forth (because it wasn't getting it right...), I finally found the song.

Headed to Spotify and found out it's by a Korean singer.
Or is he Chinese? 🤔
Anyways.....
I listened to the song on repeat like 5 times.
It's kinda like a love song...
(I said "kinda"!)

Here's the main chorus:
I'll imagine we fell in love 🎵 
I'll nap under moonlight skies with you
I think I'll picture us, you with the waves
The ocean's colors on your face
I'll leave my heart in your air
So, let me fly with you 🎶 
Will you be forever with me?

If you're on Spotify, listen to the song here.
Then you decide if it's a love song or not...
The slow rhythm, the lyrics, everything is just perfect.

I guess that's why I couldn't rest until I found the full song.
It's one of my faves now ❤️

Let's get into highlights now.
It's from the usual read by Martin Meadows....just the right match for my writing challenge.
We've been with it since day 1 of this blog.
And we'll get to the very last page of this book 📖

365 Days With Self-discipline
📌 On Patience With Mindset Changes

"Nothing important comes into being overnight; even grapes or figs need time to ripen.
If you say that you want a fig now, I will tell you to be patient.
First, you must allow the tree to flower, then put forth fruit; then you have to wait until the fruit is ripe.
So if the fruit of a fig tree is not brought to maturity instantly or in an hour, how do you expect the human mind to come to fruition, so quickly and easily?"
Quote by Epictetus

"Here’s a rule everybody would be wise to remember: don’t expect to change the negative habits you’ve been engaging in for years over the course of a few days or even a few weeks.
Mindset changes — in both positive and negative directions — take time to develop."

"If you’re starting from zero, without a vice you first need to get rid of, it will obviously take you less time to acquire the virtue you’re seeking, as you don’t have to reverse the negative effects of the vice.
Even so, it doesn’t mean that you’ll be able to implement a permanent change overnight."

"Just as it takes time for fruit to ripen, so it takes time for a mindset to mature.
A new trait or habit only becomes firmly ingrained in your identity with the passage of time and a growing number of experiences that reinforce it."

Patience, the greatest virtue 😌
Sometimes I need to remind myself of the fact that everything I've dreamed of will take some time to become reality.

Give or take 5 years,
That relationship,
That dream business,
That freedom to travel,
Will all be mine.
Till then, what will I do? I will make the most of where I am and what I have.
And work my way to success.
I hope you achieve all you've ever dreamed of, my friend 🎀

I could end the post here....and say my closing lines.
But to make this post longer, let me share the chat with Cindy, my Meta AI.
I'll be doing that for the rest of this week, so don't miss it!
The chat is on the power of mindset.
Here's how it went:

Me: How does mindset influence one's behavior?

Meta AI: Our mindset acts like a lens that filters how we perceive and respond to situations.
It influences our thoughts, feelings, and actions.
For example:

* A 'fixed mindset' might lead to avoidance or giving up easily when faced with challenges.
* A 'growth mindset' can foster resilience, motivation, and a willingness to learn and take on new challenges.

In essence, our mindset shapes our attitudes, behaviors, and ultimately, our outcomes.
It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy – our mindset can either hold us back or propel us forward!

Me: How can I identify the kind of mindset I have?

Meta AI: You can identify your mindset by paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in different situations. Ask yourself:

* How do I react to challenges? Do I avoid them or take them head-on?
* How do I respond to failures or setbacks? Do I get discouraged or see them as opportunities to learn?
* Do I believe my abilities can be developed through effort and learning, or are they fixed traits?

Reflecting on these questions can give you insight into whether you tend towards a fixed or growth mindset.
You can also look for patterns in your thoughts and behaviors, such as:

➡️ Fixed mindset: "I'm just not good at this," or "I'll never be able to do that."
➡️ Growth mindset: "I'll learn and improve with practice," or "I'm excited to take on this challenge."

By becoming more aware of your thoughts and behaviors, you can better understand your mindset and identify areas for growth.

Me: Hmm 🤔
Sometimes, most of us are not self aware....maybe because of distractions from the outside world.
Am I correct?

Meta AI: The modern world can be a significant distraction, making it challenging to tune in to our own thoughts, feelings, and needs. Constant exposure to social media, notifications, and external stimuli can lead to:

* External focus: we become more aware of others' lives and opinions than our own.
* Mind clutter: our minds become preoccupied with external noise, making it harder to listen to our inner voice.

This can indeed make self-awareness more difficult. However, by intentionally creating space for reflection, mindfulness, and self-care, we can cultivate greater self-awareness and tune in to our inner world.

Me: How exactly is self-awareness connected to a growth mindset?

Meta AI: Self-awareness is closely linked to a growth mindset because it allows us to:

* Recognize our strengths and weaknesses: understanding areas where we need improvement.
* Identify fixed mindset thoughts: becoming aware of negative self-talk or limiting beliefs.
* Develop a growth-oriented perspective: recognizing opportunities for growth and learning.

With self-awareness, we can:

➡️ Monitor our thoughts and emotions: catching ourselves when we slip into fixed mindset thinking.
➡️ Make intentional choices: choosing to approach challenges with a growth mindset.
➡️ Learn from experiences: reflecting on successes and setbacks to inform future growth.

In essence, self-awareness is the foundation for developing a growth mindset.
By understanding ourselves, we can cultivate a more adaptive and growth-oriented approach to life.

Me: Does writing by hand help with being self-aware?

Meta AI: Writing by hand can indeed support self-awareness. Research suggests that handwriting:

✍🏼 Enhances cognitive processing: engaging multiple senses and promoting deeper thinking.
✍🏼 Fosters reflection and introspection: slowing down thoughts and emotions, allowing for greater insight.
✍🏼 Increases mindfulness: encouraging a more present and focused state.

Handwriting can be a powerful tool for self-reflection, journaling, and exploring your thoughts and emotions.
Many people find that putting pen to paper helps them process their experiences, gain clarity, and develop greater self-awareness.

Me: Use a relatable analogy to explain the power of one's mindset. Then give a befitting conclusion to this discussion.

Meta AI: Here's an analogy:

Think of your mindset like a pair of glasses. If you wear glasses with a fixed mindset prescription, you'll see challenges as obstacles, failures as permanent, and growth as limited.
But if you switch to glasses with a growth mindset prescription, suddenly you'll see challenges as opportunities, failures as temporary setbacks, and growth as possible.

Your mindset is like a lens that shapes your perspective, influencing how you navigate life's ups and downs.
By adopting a growth mindset, you can transform your outlook, build resilience, and unlock your potential.

In conclusion, our discussion on mindset highlights the profound impact it has on our lives.
By recognizing the power of mindset and cultivating self-awareness, we can intentionally choose a growth-oriented perspective.
This empowers us to approach challenges with confidence, learn from failures, and unlock our full potential.
By harnessing the power of mindset, we can live more intentionally, achieve greater fulfillment, and reach new heights.

That's the end of the chat.
What do you think?
I think mindset plays a very crucial role in success and most times, people overlook that.
What's your take?
If you can, leave a comment below.
(You can be anonymous....)

I can probably end the chat now.
Thanks for showing up today.
Thanks for reading ☺️
It may be AI Series for the rest of this week, but things will change after my exam....I promise.

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I'm Duon Ada, the girl behind the screen, typing all this.
I'm documenting 2025.
And I'll see you tomorrow
Ciao 💕